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I chatted with a friend on the ICQ yesterday. We talked about family burden. I told him that he had too many 'guy's concern'. During the little discussion, he corrected my comment.
It's not the first time I was told that I am too judgemental and make comments without thinking carefully. I wondered if I am so poor in hiding my 'fox tail' or it's so easy to be seen. No one sends me such a comment in my daily life but I received more than once in my daily cyber life. What makes such a difference? What does it imply?
I guess I am not as good as I thought in receiving messages by word. Life is easier when I can see your eyes and gestures. Or people don't, or dare not express themselves face to face?
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Crystallization--the internet can be either a tool of love or a weapon. Use it wisely. It takes our basic emotions (passion or anger) and MAGNIFIES them. It also magnifies the ways we lie to ourselves (not only others).
Fantasy is a kind of life-saving lie. The internet builds on this rule.
You already feel freer (more blunt and honest) on the net. Good. Forget that people's feelings get hurt; at least you are honest.
I hate a lie more than the hard truth. Take the freedom yoou give yourself on ICQ and make it your everyday honesty.
Otherwise, everything else is just faking it. A kind of lying.
Eyes and gestures are better than words. Words lie. Words deceive. It's harder to lie with the face and eyes.
When you meet and love someone who can lie, not only with words but with his face and gestures. . . And you still believe him.
Run.
Run away.
Dear anonymous- What you said is an alarm. Guess it's time to wake up from my internet dream, take a deep breath and walk into the real world.
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